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		<title>Comment on Being Authentic in an Unauthentic World by Gregory Covey</title>
		<link>http://randyspeck.wordpress.com/2009/04/18/being-authentic-in-an-unauthentic-world-2/#comment-43</link>
		<dc:creator>Gregory Covey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2009 13:17:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Someone that believes all power starts and stops with them certainly fits into the catagory of an authoritarian leader. 

Speaking as someone that was in the Marine Corps, when you are on the battle field you need someone ready to make decisions in an authoritative way. This is a time you can not stand around debating what is the best course of action. You need someone that can make a decision and stand behind it. 

However, on the other hand, someone in the normal workforce today may not be thought of in the same way if they are an authoritarian leader. 

So what does that look like in practice? 

It is someone that may ask for input, but leaves no doubt about who is going to make the final decision.

Certainly someone in a leadership position needs to be able to make the tough decisions. 

But someone that presents those decisions in a forceful way will not be respected unless it is a crisis they are dealing with. 

Yes, in a crisis you want someone in charge making the right decisions without worrying about how someone else feels. 

I have always said it is easier to get a great big bull into the barn by giving it a reason to go there, instead of forcing it from behind. 

The latter way generally never ends up good for the bull or the person trying to push him. 

An authoritarian leader will tell someone exactly what they want from them. In most cases they will speak down to them in some fashion. 

As an example they may say something like, &quot;Here is what I want done and when I want it done by!&quot; 

In their personal relationships they most often act the same way, i.e., they are in charge.

You may get results on that project, task, or assignment, but anything more beyond that will be difficult. They will start and stop on your exact directions, and in most cases will not even try to enhance the work. They will also be looking for another job and taking it as soon as possible.

I have always wanted employees who while working on a project are not afraid to enhance it.

In a situation where I don&#039;t want this to happen I will clearly let them know that, and why it is important to stick with the original plan. 

An authoritarian most likely will not let them know why. They will say they don&#039;t need to know why. 

I would respond that if you want someone that can think on their feet when you are not around, say like on vacation, it may be a good idea to let them know why. 

I suppose under the right conditions I have been an authoritarian leader from time to time, but it has been rare. 

Unless you fit into one of the categories above where being an authoritarian leader is necessary, I would not recommend it for the long term. 

It is not a good leadership attribute to have, for the everyday leader.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Someone that believes all power starts and stops with them certainly fits into the catagory of an authoritarian leader. </p>
<p>Speaking as someone that was in the Marine Corps, when you are on the battle field you need someone ready to make decisions in an authoritative way. This is a time you can not stand around debating what is the best course of action. You need someone that can make a decision and stand behind it. </p>
<p>However, on the other hand, someone in the normal workforce today may not be thought of in the same way if they are an authoritarian leader. </p>
<p>So what does that look like in practice? </p>
<p>It is someone that may ask for input, but leaves no doubt about who is going to make the final decision.</p>
<p>Certainly someone in a leadership position needs to be able to make the tough decisions. </p>
<p>But someone that presents those decisions in a forceful way will not be respected unless it is a crisis they are dealing with. </p>
<p>Yes, in a crisis you want someone in charge making the right decisions without worrying about how someone else feels. </p>
<p>I have always said it is easier to get a great big bull into the barn by giving it a reason to go there, instead of forcing it from behind. </p>
<p>The latter way generally never ends up good for the bull or the person trying to push him. </p>
<p>An authoritarian leader will tell someone exactly what they want from them. In most cases they will speak down to them in some fashion. </p>
<p>As an example they may say something like, &#8220;Here is what I want done and when I want it done by!&#8221; </p>
<p>In their personal relationships they most often act the same way, i.e., they are in charge.</p>
<p>You may get results on that project, task, or assignment, but anything more beyond that will be difficult. They will start and stop on your exact directions, and in most cases will not even try to enhance the work. They will also be looking for another job and taking it as soon as possible.</p>
<p>I have always wanted employees who while working on a project are not afraid to enhance it.</p>
<p>In a situation where I don&#8217;t want this to happen I will clearly let them know that, and why it is important to stick with the original plan. </p>
<p>An authoritarian most likely will not let them know why. They will say they don&#8217;t need to know why. </p>
<p>I would respond that if you want someone that can think on their feet when you are not around, say like on vacation, it may be a good idea to let them know why. </p>
<p>I suppose under the right conditions I have been an authoritarian leader from time to time, but it has been rare. </p>
<p>Unless you fit into one of the categories above where being an authoritarian leader is necessary, I would not recommend it for the long term. </p>
<p>It is not a good leadership attribute to have, for the everyday leader.</p>
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		<title>Comment on No Leadership again&#8230;now from Tennessee by Ann</title>
		<link>http://randyspeck.wordpress.com/2008/12/14/no-leadership-againnow-from-tennessee/#comment-41</link>
		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Dec 2008 03:18:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, Randy--I&#039;m impressed with your comments!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Randy&#8211;I&#8217;m impressed with your comments!</p>
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		<title>Comment on A lot of stones being thrown by Rodibidably</title>
		<link>http://randyspeck.wordpress.com/2008/09/02/a-lot-of-stones-being-thrown/#comment-29</link>
		<dc:creator>Rodibidably</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 18:23:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I an attempt to hopefully see from the the viewpoint of others, I&#039;ve come up with a question to help me understand the believers view on the world.
http://potomac9499.wordpress.com/2008/08/31/a-question-for-believers-are-there-any-limits-to-your-faith/

Hopefully you can give me your thoughts and help me to understand the mind of a believer, just a bit better.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I an attempt to hopefully see from the the viewpoint of others, I&#8217;ve come up with a question to help me understand the believers view on the world.<br />
<a href="http://potomac9499.wordpress.com/2008/08/31/a-question-for-believers-are-there-any-limits-to-your-faith/" rel="nofollow">http://potomac9499.wordpress.com/2008/08/31/a-question-for-believers-are-there-any-limits-to-your-faith/</a></p>
<p>Hopefully you can give me your thoughts and help me to understand the mind of a believer, just a bit better.</p>
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		<title>Comment on A lot of stones being thrown by thenonconformer</title>
		<link>http://randyspeck.wordpress.com/2008/09/02/a-lot-of-stones-being-thrown/#comment-28</link>
		<dc:creator>thenonconformer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 17:56:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Me too I am praying for you,,

For  me starting my day with the Bible, prayer, quiet times makes for a great day to look forward too..

I had attended a nice beautiful church for the first time and I could not help but notice that there was very few  people in it and i could not help but wonder why next too..

And halfway through the service the pastor announced that the wednesday prayer meetings had been cancelled to allow more family times. Now I understood why the church was dying.

http://witnessed.wordpress.com/2008/09/02/the-false-comforters/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Me too I am praying for you,,</p>
<p>For  me starting my day with the Bible, prayer, quiet times makes for a great day to look forward too..</p>
<p>I had attended a nice beautiful church for the first time and I could not help but notice that there was very few  people in it and i could not help but wonder why next too..</p>
<p>And halfway through the service the pastor announced that the wednesday prayer meetings had been cancelled to allow more family times. Now I understood why the church was dying.</p>
<p><a href="http://witnessed.wordpress.com/2008/09/02/the-false-comforters/" rel="nofollow">http://witnessed.wordpress.com/2008/09/02/the-false-comforters/</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Being a parent, being VP nominee and loving your daughter by Evangelicals On Palin&#8217;s Pregnant Daughter &#124; Politics - Sharpy News</title>
		<link>http://randyspeck.wordpress.com/2008/09/01/being-a-parent-being-vp-nominee-and-loving-your-daughter/#comment-27</link>
		<dc:creator>Evangelicals On Palin&#8217;s Pregnant Daughter &#124; Politics - Sharpy News</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 10:26:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] window into evangelical reaction. Randy Speck, the superintendent of the Oakland Christian School, writes in his blog: &#8220;Politicians certainly aren?t perfect and neither are their families. I will make the [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] window into evangelical reaction. Randy Speck, the superintendent of the Oakland Christian School, writes in his blog: &#8220;Politicians certainly aren?t perfect and neither are their families. I will make the [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Being a parent, being VP nominee and loving your daughter by Mary Ellen</title>
		<link>http://randyspeck.wordpress.com/2008/09/01/being-a-parent-being-vp-nominee-and-loving-your-daughter/#comment-26</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary Ellen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 19:42:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are very correct to lift prayers up for Bristol Palin up to the Lord.  

 However,  where was this same sentiment for Bill Clinton?

Evangelicals persecuted him.  As a Catholic, I believe this is not even an issue about Bristol making a mistake at an early age in her life.  

This is about Sarah Palin putting her career BEFORE her family.  Family first... I question if she was not so busy with her career if this would have happened in the first place.  I was a young mother at age 19. I also have had a baby at 40.  I can relate. I made MANY sacrifices in my career for my children.  Many nights I could have worked late and pushed my income level higher.. Did I do it.. NO.  I am the mother of my children FIRST.  FAMILY FIRST.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are very correct to lift prayers up for Bristol Palin up to the Lord.  </p>
<p> However,  where was this same sentiment for Bill Clinton?</p>
<p>Evangelicals persecuted him.  As a Catholic, I believe this is not even an issue about Bristol making a mistake at an early age in her life.  </p>
<p>This is about Sarah Palin putting her career BEFORE her family.  Family first&#8230; I question if she was not so busy with her career if this would have happened in the first place.  I was a young mother at age 19. I also have had a baby at 40.  I can relate. I made MANY sacrifices in my career for my children.  Many nights I could have worked late and pushed my income level higher.. Did I do it.. NO.  I am the mother of my children FIRST.  FAMILY FIRST.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Being authentic with my son by The Goldstein Family</title>
		<link>http://randyspeck.wordpress.com/2008/02/12/being-authentic-with-my-son/#comment-25</link>
		<dc:creator>The Goldstein Family</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 00:08:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just saw this for the first time-- precious and made me cry with joy!
What a great honor to have our girls sitting under your example of leadership with integrity at OCS-- they are watching you too!  And we are glad for what they see as so much of life is not taught... but rather caught!
Thank you and many blessings -- Jennifer (for all)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just saw this for the first time&#8211; precious and made me cry with joy!<br />
What a great honor to have our girls sitting under your example of leadership with integrity at OCS&#8211; they are watching you too!  And we are glad for what they see as so much of life is not taught&#8230; but rather caught!<br />
Thank you and many blessings &#8212; Jennifer (for all)</p>
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		<title>Comment on Hello world! by Mr WordPress</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mr WordPress</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Oct 2007 19:02:48 +0000</pubDate>
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